Do not force it if it hurts. Once we tried it a few times, I actually really enjoyed it and even had orgasms! That article made me realize that women out there are being made to believe that anal sex is designed to please men and to fulfill a secret desire to be turned into a submissive degraded female. If you want to enjoy anal sex more, I do suggest trying what I suggest about having him sit there for a moment before he really thrusts. Okay…my man loves to do it without the condom. Continue stimulation there with your hands or with a small vibe so that you stay in a state of arousal during penetration.
Make sure that you use copious amounts of lube the entire time, but be aware that you may not be able to take him in without some discomfort. When I let go it slides right in and feels great. The same goes for anal sex. Comment by lola on October 8, 1: I do see what you are talking about the associated germs.
This is when anal sex becomes the perfect back up plan. Comment by funone on July 2, In fact, if your husband is down there with his fingers or a plug, just tell him to keep the bottle of lube with him! Regina, it sounds like you need to have an honest conversation with your husband about this subject. Comment by cumingirl on February 24, 7:
I prefer it to vaginal sex. So the back door cures all of that since your man can come in there safely. More From Thought Catalog. I prefer no to mention this to my husband, because I think I wont like anal sex and he might. I've had guys try to do that 'whoops, sorry wrong hole' thing in the past, so I just appreciated that he wasn't a total dick about it. If it does, than something is def. Or for the sake of his bad reaction you could just try good old fashioned coconut oil or almond oil.