I was married for 10 years when I divorced my husband many years ago. I feel exactly how you feel and I'm embarrassed! You were both happy though one was lying, no happiness for him because it was all a lie but in their eyes it was true happiness not an act. We were in our mid-forties and while some of our friends were experiencing difficulties, I felt lucky — almost smug, that we had such a great relationship while other marriages floundered. The closeted man who comes out tends to be seen as the unalloyed victim these days, while the wives are collateral damage. Susan Pease Gadoua L. G radually, I began to confide in others — my sisters, a close friend.
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Under the circumstances, it's very normal if you Signs You Are Gay , that is when you can truly know that he is gay. But when my ex-husband chose to marry me knowing he was gay , he compounded that harm, spreading the trauma and devastation to two lives, rather than confining it to one. The fact that it was seven years before her suspicions were aroused will bemuse many.
God does wonderful things and people all too often like to say He's not real, it's all in your imagination. I remember reading about how children who were difficult to hypnotise were often caused to drop into such by use of a solid known truth, then a blatant lie, then a solid truth in rapid fire order. Kaye advises that women "follow their instincts" when deciding whether their husband may be gay. I feel so hurt and confused.
The level of openness and transparency this required actually brought us closer. He wasn't caught until It was anything but easy, but we learned an important lesson: I had made it through. The wife has not been inadequate in any way and likely the gay husband married her because he truly cared about her. Submitted by Autumn on June 24, - 9: